this
morning, I saw this primary school kid holding his mother's hand walking
happily to school. I was abit taken back because, he look like he is P5-6, but
yet he is still holding his mother's hand. But after a moment of thought. I
felt guilty.
Why did I
gave him the weir d face. There is nothing wrong.
Thinking
back into the past on how I would cling on my parents.
Wanting to hold their
hands. and slowly deciding not to and eventually end up to a state like this.
Not holding at all.
It is still
the new year so I want to express this out to all of my fellow friends out
there. Our parents, supported us in almost every way.
Family is the only people
that truly accept for who you are. What you are.
So I want to
take this chance and say this.
You owe your
whole life to your parents no matter what. They gave birth to you. From the
moment you are in their stomach. You are living on their expense.
On top of
that, remember those times where they shouted at you, scolded you. All of that,
are just lessons that you are going to learn in the hard way.
They beat
you, cane you. What makes you think they don't hurt inside?
Who knows
they softly cry at night because you did something that really hurt them bad.
Sometimes
hurtful words come out of our mouth without us knowing. We might be hot headed
at times and do things without thinking thats where the respect thing came in.
You, as a
child of your parents must respect them in any time and under any circumstances.
Most of you
have what you need to survive because as long as your parents are mentally
stable, they will at least provide you with a roof above your head, and food.
How much
more do you want to ask for?
Just because
its human to always want something that you don't have, it does not mean that
that thing is as important.
Nothing is
more important than family.
Do you think
that friendship last forever? some does, but who knows if that person is real.
Parents judgments
pretty much 95%. Sometimes you might
want to take their words into consideration because firstly, they are out in
the society obviously having more experiences and have seen more people than
you. They know how certain people act, they can see how people are going to be
like.
Trust your
parents. I believe they won't want you to get hurt in anyways because, at the
start and end of story, YOU came out from them. Your mother went through that
amount of pain, to get you out here not to see you fall and crash and fail. They
have expectations from you.
Those
expectations. You might say things like, they always want me to do this. They
expect me to act in a certain manner.
Behind all
this, there must be a reason why such thing are said, and done.
If you
really can't, why not try and talk it out instead of fighting and screaming and
all those stupid little things that breaks relation.
Honestly, I
never thought that I would write all this but. Recalling, during my primary
school days, from p1-p5, My grandfather fetches me every single day from school
back home. P6 lesser because I have weird timings to come back home but, yeap,
don't judge me.
I really
like the feeling that my grandfather likes to hold my hand and cross the road.
just make me feel really safe.
Even
nowadays, I do it. Because in his heart, I am always that little girl that he use
to bring to eat ice kachang.
In his
heart, I am always so young and fragile.
In his
heart, I will never need to grow up.
I believe
all this appiles to parents. In their
heart, you are still a child. No matter what, you are still their child. No
matter how bad, how rebellious, how stupid, how smart, how tall, how short, how
fat , how skinny you are. You are still blood related to them.
On the day
you were born, I believe its one of the most happy moments of their lives. Its
a present sent alive.
Its the DNA
you cannot deny.
Remember,
you are what you are today or in the future. Because your parents chose to keep
you.
How much
more can you ask for?
AND, my
school recently said, even a simple action like making them coffee or tea or
even milo. Or maybe just bread in the morning. It makes that difference. It is showing care
and love.
Valentines
is coming. Not necessarily be only BGR but, family love.
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