People say, friends come and go.
Well, I have to agree, but some
outsiders take it as " got new friends and dump the older ones".
Honestly, if you know me long enough, you will know how dearly I hold on to
each and every friendship I have, I do whatever I could to salvage it, until I
am finally tired and I will never try again.
There is a confusion about friendship ties nowadays. People whom
we consider friends, people whom we place our trust into, or maybe people who
we share secrets with.
There is just so much confusion about what is true friendship.
Let me solve your mystery.
Is the people around you, whom you consider friends, consider you
as one and treat you like one.
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Firstly, the little reactions.
A friend will always be opened to hear opinions about you.
Because, they will never want to stop knowing more about you. The way you act
when you are upset, the way you smile, they way you look when you are about to
cry. Are the little reactions a true friend must equip. As humans, we like to
hide our emotions, but our reflexes moves faster than our brain would reaslise.
Hence the way to find out someone's true feelings is through their actions, to
be able to observe the little changes.
Secondly, to feel the gush of relief.
When you see that person's face, you immediately become more calm
and relaxed. In a sense, they give you the feeling of protection. Because, you
know no matter what happens, they will just be there for you, no matter over a
phone call, or over a caring text message, or being physically there. The
feeling of being relax around the person is one of the most important key point
into known and knowing.
Third, and last, the ability to be yourself.
When you know you totally let your guard and heart walls is when,
you be yourself. oh yes, I mean the horny talks, the explosive laughs, the
craziness and the unglamness of just
wearing home clothes together. Talk about things like there is nothing else in
the world that matters more. It could just be both sitting down, using the
phone, not talking at all. But first, you will not feel awkward, nor you will
even feel uncomfortable.
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And now you know, how you would react to a true friendship. Now,
I am going to tell you the password to maintaining a friendship.
Show appreciation
Every once in a while, for no reason, just buy him or her a gift
or have an outing if it is a clique. Since you both have been together
actively, I think there should be no problem having a treat from one another.
Because it is really the little actions in life that brings people's souls
linked.
Spend quality time together
Do stupid things, well I do not mean the bad way but I mean, fun
and exciting things. Going out together and spending some time together will
just create more memories between two people. Who knows what interesting things
will happen when you both are out, when there is no parents no rules? AND NO
MOM, if you are reading this, I behave myself when I am out.
Trust & care
In a rarity, share secrets, if you both promise there will be no
lies in between, I believe the bond will be even stronger. Honestly, I have
almost no secrets left, since most of them were leaked by someone, whom I
thought I could place my trust. I had a hard time trying to fix myself up and
bring up another courage to trust someone else again. So beware, with trust,
comes with consequences, if you end up being hurt, it is alright, there will be
someone else definitely willing to be your friend.
Like today, I spent amazing moments with my girls, they just came
over to my place, we swam, we had real heart to heart talks. Well, girls talk.
Memories are just created together just like this, we share opinions, ideas and
circulate love.
Well, so are you a good friend? I bet you are.
Thanks for reading x
ig: @nsnceline
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