DISCLAMER: This is not a post to discourage
you or damage your self esteem. Just generally what I realise.
Here are 4 reasons why you might be single
(there is way too many reasons, I am just generalizing) :
1. You let your past relationships drown you.


We all have that one relationship that blasted
through our hearts, sometimes it still hurts even now. But you shouldn't let
those guys/girls who cheated, hurt, or even abuse you scare to till this
extend. Pain will be gone as time passes, no point holding on to the past.
Since it already happened, might as well take it as a harsh lesson learnt.
Slowly find someone whom you can have a healthy relationship with.
2. Lack of confidence


YOU YOU YOU YOU. "There is no ugly
woman, only lazy ones." It applies to boys too actually. If you actually
take your time to take a shower, go to the gym, gel up your hair. For girls
wearing a decent clothing, light makeup, smile. I have seen my really pretty
girlfriends going for average or even below average looking guys, and also seen
my handsome guy friends getting average looking girls. I mean, the posture, the
confidence, the comfort level. There is so many things related to confidence I
have no idea how to explain through words. Embrace your flaws and someone else
will too.
It is absolutely okay to love yourself, but
for people who goes to the extreme it starts to become a turn off. Just like,
there is a difference between confidence and arrogant. People might distance
themselves from you just because they feel that you are "hard to
approach". I have been in that situation, I mean, even now, some people
thinks I am arrogant. Oh well, have to accept the fact that not everyone likes
you.
4. Expectations


People make unrealistic expectations. Guys
want their girls to be petite, slim, big eyes, cute, sexy, understand them da
di da da, girls want to have their guys to have abs, spoil them, presents da di
da. I mean, once in a while is fine but all the time? I see guys ranting on facebook
how they do not want to have a girlfriend that club and smoke. I mean, if you
want it then you should be a role model and not do it yourself.
For those people that always go #foreveralone
#alone #goingto2015single, THIS IS FOR YOU MY FRIEND.
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